Are you the type of girl who gets shy around guys? The way you act doesn't seem to get there attention, at least you think that anyways? Well that's what i am here for, to help you get that guy of your dreams to ask you out. But first he has to be in your league. Or hey you might be lucky to get a guys that's way outta your league. Doesn't only happen in fairy tales you know!
So instead of being that shy, backwards person, be yourself. That's what the guy wants. He wants a girl who doesn't act fake just to get his attention or a girl who acts completely weird and may just creep him out a bit. You may not think being yourself will be the right thing but in the long run you will find out differently. So don't listen to your friends when they tell you to act cool, of course you wanna seem cool but is that really who you are?
Now the next thing to do is show the guy you like him, but don't go over board with it. No one (guys) like pushy girls. So next time your around with him whether it be with a bunch of friends flirt with him a little bit, drop some hints. Maybe if he's smart enough he'll catch on. But don't hold your breath.
So you obviously just can't rush into things or rush things yourself so establish a friendship. Now don't become to good of friends. Because then you may think " wow i am scared i may lose him as a friend if we date then break up" now those are the hardest situations. Make a steady friendship not one where you guys become best pals. Just to where you hang out and can get him to realize you like him as more than a friend.
The next thing you wanna do is get to know him. Find out what he likes. So to say favorite food, what he likes to do for fun, things like that. Now don't ask to many questions. Just enough to where you both will know enough about each other so it won't make things awkward because you don't know anything about one another.
Instead of being with friends all the time, get him alone to where he may ask you out because being around all your friends or his friends may make him nervous. But don't make him uncomfortable when you two are alone. Talk to one another. Have fun. Be yourself.
If he still hasn't asked you out yet, ask him to help you with something. Nothing to big of course just something small to where you to can have fun with it. Instead of something hard where you two are both stressed out because you can't seem to figure out why its still not working. Now you don't want that to happen do you?
Make you sure you both get along with each others friends. Because he's gonna wanna hang with his and may want you to come along, but if you don't like them because let's say they may be obnoxious then how is that gonna work or vice versa him with your friends.
Obviously your gonna wanna make you sure you look your best for him at all times. But don't go to crazy. Some guys don't like the pounds of make up. So ask him what he likes in a girl. That way you know how to look for him whether it be pretty and subtle with out all the make up with jeans and a t-shirt. All guys are different.
Instead of you talking about yourself the whole time, let him talk about himself. Guys LOVE to do that. They love making them seem like their a big macho man or if there quite then their may not be a lot of conversation at all.
But if he hasn't asked you out yet, do it yourself. You never know whats gonna happen unless you do. You may be nervous but it won't be that bad. He might say yes, he might say he just wants to be friends, or he might say no and that's what we all get scared of. But be confident. Don't be scared. You'll never know if you don't.
So good luck. Follow these steps and maybe you'll get that guy of dreams. If not there's plenty of more fish in the sea. As the old saying Goes.